If two women have sex and there are no guys to watch, does it matter?.

Ever notice how a lot of guys can't stand the thought of a woman ONLY sleeping with women, but love to watch two women having sex together? Apparently, they think the definition of a Lesbian is a woman who has sex with another woman for a man's pleasure. I find it interesting that these guys even interpret Lesbianism, something that has absolutely NOTHING to do with men, in terms of themselves. Everything has to be defined by how it relates to them.

The truly scary part about this is that I know women who think this way, too. Has our society really pounded in the ideology that all things are to be defined by the male perspective? You can bet that if I'm going to have sex with a woman, the last thing I'm going to be thinking about is a man and if he's getting anything out of it!

Another similar revelation I have had is that most men, and even some women, think the idea of two women together is a cool one. Yet, the idea of two men together is sickening. I know our culture supports more touchy-feeliness between women, but this is pushing that concept just a little too far. This whole double standards of homosexuality is ridiculous.

This is just stuff I was thinking about and felt that others should, too. Have any thoughts about it? Send 'em to me.